How to Get Rid of Unwanted Suitors: Advice from Hmong-American Women of Two Generations
Author(s):
Burt, Susan Meredith
Format:
Journal article
Citation:
Journal Of Politeness Research, Volume 1, Issue 2 (2005). pp. 219-236.
Language:
English
Abstract:
This paper analyzes the recommendations made by Hmong immigrant women & Hmong-American women for responses to a face-threatening scenario, in which a woman is invited to play a courting game with a man in whom she has no interest. While the older women recommend direct statements & unmitigated directives to discourage the suitor, the younger women recommend excuses & attempts to postpone. Thus, the younger women appear to recommend more polite verbal strategies than the older women do, a pattern that seems puzzling. A close look at the older women's responses reveals that they were assuming conditions for the interaction similar to those that prevailed when they were young women in Laos, where women's power both in general & in interaction, was much less than men's. In contrast, the young Hmong-American women assume different conditions & possibilities for women's lives, with greater power available to them than to women of their grandmothers' generation. Thus, greater power for these speakers seems to occasion increased use of verbal politeness, while speakers with assumptions of lower power employ more bald-on-record strategies, a tendency that Brown & Levinson (1987 [1978]) do not predict. 1 Table, 12 References. Adapted from the source document